I kicked him out. After five hard years with my partner, I'm done with him. For the last two years I've paid the rent on my own. He's a self-employed tradesman and has by now thrown in the towel. Bankruptcy is here. I can't take it anymore. I want to live alone, because nothing is going to change.

He doesn't pay his share of the rent, but he still pursues his hobby. He somehow has $400 a month left over for that. That's no way to live. He tells me: "I need that. Otherwise I have nothing positive left." He still earns some money, but it doesn't come close to covering everything. I never wanted to make a financial decision. But now it has simply been forced on me.

In the future I'll be looking for a man with money, because things can't go on like this. All we did was fight, and now he goes his way and I go mine.

Looking for a Man with Money and Drive

It's not only about the money, but about him standing on his own two feet. A man who's in the thick of life. Looking for a man with money and a future. For me, he should

  • Have money
  • Have character, which matters to me
  • Be caring
  • Know what he wants out of life
  • Be authentic
  • Have visions and pursue them

By now it simply feels legitimate to me to say: "Looking for a man with money so that I'm doing well!"
When I told my friend I was breaking up, she was stunned. Now I'm looking for a man with money, and she said that rather sarcastically. She has no understanding for the way I think. But then, she isn't in my situation.
There's a saying: "Walk a mile in my shoes first." There's a lot of truth in that.
Because life simply costs money:

  • Rent
  • Utilities
  • Groceries
  • Clothing
  • etc.

Looking for a Man with Money and I Don't Care What Others Say

Let them talk: I'm looking for a man with money, and it's nobody else's business. Anyone who hasn't been through it themselves may simply not understand. As a woman, I'd also like to have a shoulder to lean on.

For many years I had to take responsibility for everything, and now that's simply over! My feelings gradually hit rock bottom. His behavior contributed to that, too.

Now it's on to a new life, and I'm looking for a man with money! I'm looking forward to my future and can finally breathe properly again.